End of Life Caregiver

  • Just like that Some come for a season, some come for a year, some a lifetime of witness I don’t believe in chance, the roll of the dice, the turn of a card All those who notice, witness or participate in our life they are there for a reason for a lesson, something to learn…

  • I’ll wait, to be the if  if this then that if but to and this is precious time when the one you love is in decline it could be days, months or even years if not now, then when you will decide  perhaps it was yesterday… then there was extra to do couragous, brave to…

  • a whisper to remember soft breath in the ear you have to lean in to hear what is said today… write it down speak your truth write them in the air declare your heart under the velvet sky put the words on paper or saved in the electric cloud Pen and ink make your think…

  • There is a difference who comes in the front door and those are who are back door guests You will want to greet the back door guests the ones who know your snack and drink preferences  you know who the back door guests are in your life the back door guests clean up the mess …

  • If you had a cracker and you wanted to share it would you break it equally in half One half or would you keep it for yourself Will you divide that pie into 8 pieces or 12 how many slices of pie are they generous or thin what about the piece with the crust that…

  • I wonder if we where to seek something other then happiness  something different, change the vernacular a win, a victory, and perhaps happiness is only temporary too Wholeness is a state of being, undamaged, unbroken Reach for wholeness by releasing the past writing it down the story of yesterday to release it.  Do those around…

  • maybe not always or never a respite a break a life shaken up, changed and rearranged sometimes it feels intense or even strange searching, questioning, unable to communicate clearly to quiet the mind  a respite a break racing thought, quick pause to repeat the cycle a respite, a break the hour glass, the melting clock…

  • In between, somewhere in the middle that spring  bound by pressure how brave, how courageous  to wind the key, to spin the wheel  The sprocket of time, the gear unwinds the teeth that lock into a chain interlocking in a sequential series of operation rotational movement developed to handle a specific weight What if the…

  • It’s quite simple trust yourself Unconditional love, for aftermath of being during the transition   No guilt or shame to start what needs to be done if you are in the season of release embrace your heart if it is difficult to clear the space then a game we will play no rules, no dice, no cards…

  • Teleology has an attractor is a set of states toward which a system tends to evolve Algebraically = n- Dimensionally = vector If the evolving variable is dimensional, the atractor of dynamic process can be represented with  A point, curve, a manifold or a fractal structure Cosmology is concerned with the study of chronology of…

Got any book recommendations?

The Storyteller’s Death a novel by Ann Davila Cardinal

Being Mortal by Atul Gawande

One Italian Summer by Rebecca Serl

The Power of Moments by Chip Heath and Dan Heath

Why we do what we do by Edward L Deci with Richard Flaste

The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho

Flow by Mihaly Cikszentmihalyi

Grit the power of passion and perseverance by Angela Duckworth