Tag: Eldercare

I am not discussing food or a radical diet plan, but the end of life the twilight, the dawn and the dusk that realization the old is old or young is young your coming home, the ebb and flow raw words, raw feelings, just raw and not peaceful guided care giving services available

quietly until your heart speaks when the real emerges and you begin to speak I will wait on the shape that you choose and when your eyebrows elevate and your pupils dilate oh… I will wait for that pause, that shutter in your voice when the truth takes hold and you quake I will hold…

To waver between extremes… There is a central point that we can center on fixing our eyes upon a point to let go Nodding our head up and down, or left to right fixing our eyes upon a point to let go finding proprioceptive comfortable to keep in balance fixing our eyes upon a point…

The Latin root of humiliations is hummus which means the earth/dirt. The abasement of honor and dignity and what accompanies that which is loss of status or standing. Three types of listening are defined by Death Doula Kelly Ruby Hanson Pure listening; no response, you sit in total awareness of what the other person is…

So you can hear what’s being said without the filter of your own experiences Sometimes you overthink what is happening, making more of the situation Don’t ask for explanations Don’t ask the questions you don’t want to hear the answers too the ones that might bring distraught to you Instead increase the comfort of the…

In the early hours before the sunrises, when there are no distractions to my thoughts There is that perpendicular line of thinking, Right Angle, turn left Math is like fate, sometimes we are a trapezoid with a stable base rotate 90 degrees, Right Angle, turn left Math has hyperbolas with an ascending arch what goes…

and all the moment that are intertwined… Just wash it, the pile of chores You are given another day, to experience that the best days are messy Just wash it, the moments in your mind Collect the laughter of the spills, the clutter and the dirty clothes Just wash it and get on with engaging…

You have permission to say let me think about that to find respite… to never explain why your leaving or why you are staying to live above the fray, to move through it, to not dwell and emerge on the other side to follow your heart or your soul. Permission to acknowledge that a weed…

A tin candle cover was crushed during the all night thunderstorm, but I still lit the bee’s wax candles to honor my late Daddio. To honor his memory and help me feel his loss and remember his legacy. Grieving is like the lighting of the thunderstorm it hits you all at once and might make…